Planning for a wedding is no joke, it is something that we should take seriously. Marriage can change your life and because of this thought, some would have doubts about whether they are ready to get married or not. If you are unsure whether it is the perfect time to marry your lover, keep reading this article.
Here are the important factors that will tell you it is the perfect time to get married or have a wedding:
Stable – Having your own job or being able to stand up for yourself is extremely important. Don’t be like other women who prefer to stay at home, without a job, and would just wait for the salary of their husbands. What would happen if your husband got suddenly fired? What would happen if you are no receiving money? Where would you get the money to buy the things that you need in order to survive? We all know just how difficult it is to have a new job since there are a lot of people looking for a job but there are only limited jobs available. And because of this, it would take a couple of months before your husband can get a new income. The best option would be is to also have a job so that if something happens, just like the scenario mentioned earlier, you are still receiving money. In addition to that, men will not belittle you, instead, they will be intimidated at you because they know for a fact that you can support yourself or you don’t need someone’s help. Your future husband should know this.
Mutual Understanding – just like what every couple should have, having a mutual understanding is what makes the relationship happy, healthy and strong. It is a must that you and your soon to be husband can communicate well. You don’t want to be in a relationship like other couples have, where they fight almost every day just because of petty things or misunderstandings. Always put it in your head that being in a relationship can make you happy, but being in a toxic relationship will just destroy you slowly. If you think that your soon-to-be husband doesn’t think the same way as you do, there is a big chance that you’ll always have an argument. But if he is willing to lower his pride or yours, then there is a possibility that your relationship may work.
No Family Issue – Do not ever choose your lover over your family. You should remember that your family is your first lovers. They are someone whom you don’t want to lose just because of a guy. Make sure that before getting married, your family likes your soon-to-be husband and the same thing goes to your lover’s family, they must also like you. This factor is important, because you are not just marrying your lover, but you are preparing to be part of their family. And besides, who would want to have a wedding where one your family members is not present? Or your lover’s? You will surely feel guilty or sad because one of your family members didn’t show up. So to avoid it, make sure that both sides gave thumbs up for your wedding.